Mail for Moms

When you subscribe to Mail for Moms, each month you will receive an envelope in the mail!

Here is what’s inside:

A letter composed by me (Ashley) which will cover various topics from month to month. Subjects may include lessons I have learned as a mom, mistakes I have made, joys I have felt, personal struggles, encouragement, or anything else I feel led to share. My goal is to be raw and honest. I won’t be able to help other moms by being fake and accommodating.
A pre-stamped postcard with beautiful art work! Who wants a boring, blank card? Not me!
The name and address of another mom who is apart of the Mail for Moms community and who would love to hear from you! (This is what the pre-stamped postcard is for, but feel free to send it to whomever you choose if you know of another mom who would love to join our movement).
An elegant recipe card with a delicious meal for you and your family. The recipes I include have been curated by me, cooked by me, and eaten by me! No more scrolling through food blogs littered with ads and trying to find the recipe hidden in a seven page story.

When we were little girls growing up,...

there was one phrase we heard repeatedly. “It takes a village to raise children.” Years ago, mothers were a common occurrence. It was normal to see a mom with four children or a pregnant woman in the grocery store pushing her cart. Women scheduled play dates with each other’s children. People would have picnics in the park while the kids played on the swing sets, and moms would bake casseroles for the potlucks at church.

This was the world our current generation of mothers experienced. These were our standards and expectations. However, once we became mothers ourselves, the environment was no longer as we remembered. The village had dispersed, and we were now alone. We didn’t prepare for this.

Now, if a woman wants to become a mother, she is looked upon with pity. She is told that she will become “trapped,” and that her children will ruin her life. She will lose her independence. She will never have joy in life. To make matters worse, if a woman wants to stay at home and raise her children, she becomes an enemy to the female gender. By staying in the home, she somehow threatens the entire feminist movement and “boss girl” agenda.

Finally, the most disheartening thing of all: cruelty from other mothers. We thought mothers were meant to stick together and offer encouragement. But sadly, with the dominance of social media, many mothers have become far removed from real human interaction. We as women are fed lies about how one mom has it “all together” and that no one should deviate from her example. Perfection is now the standard. When we inevitably fall short, we are met with cynicism and disappointment. We somehow fall much harder from the pedestal others have erected for us because, well, “You’re the one who wanted kids” or “We told you so.”

It’s time that we as mothers lay down our darts against one another. It’s time for us as mothers to band together to withstand the harshness of the world in which we now live. It’s time to revive the village. We may not all live next door, but that shouldn’t stop us.

No more false promises of “DMs” on Instagram. No more vapid comments on Facebook reels.

Let’s go back to basics. We need real connection which possesses meaning- something heartfelt and tangible. Something apart from the bloated swamp of the internet.

Letters.

Words on paper have been used for millennia to communicate ideas, express love, memorialize history, spark movements, and so much more. The purposes and intents of letters are innumerable! It’s not until the internet was introduced that we suddenly stopped seeking personal interactions. Thousands of years of interpersonal communications- POOF- gone….

Social media platforms may reign supreme, for now…., but it can never eradicate or replace that which has stood the test of time. It’s time to resurrect the most powerful tool we can wield- the pen and paper. For heaven’s sake! Our very own nation was founded with an ink well and parchment!

And that’s why Mail for Moms exists.

Mail for Moms is not another junk mail subscription making empty promises. My intention is to poor my heart into each word that I write. Everything will have a purpose.

If this sounds like something you’d like to be involved in, don’t wait! Join our community today and help build our village!

About Me

Hello! My name is Ashley Adams. I am a wife and a proud mother to three boys in the heart of Tennessee. I have a step son who is 5 and two boys under the age of 2. I don’t have to say much to convince you that my life stays chaotic and interesting!

For me, becoming a mom was not the most beautiful transformation I had always envisioned. Don’t get me wrong...there were beautiful aspects..., but I am referring to the nitty gritty which most people don’t want to talk about. Whether a woman births a baby, adopts a baby, or takes on a step child, it is a shocking transition. Quite literally, her life gets turned upside down overnight. Priorities change, schedules change, bodies change, sleeping arrangements change, meal times change, and anything else one can think of changes! It’s easy to lose a grip on reality when everything is shifting underneath one’s feet.

No matter what scenario a mother finds herself in, she deserves support and friendship. One might say that motherhood is the most life altering time period in a woman’s life and when she needs cheerleaders the most. However, this is not the case for most moms. Speaking from experience, becoming a step mom and becoming a mom were two of the single most difficult phases in my life.

I had never felt so lonely.

Friends from college had moved away and were not having children yet. Family either lived out of state or had their own jobs to attend. I had moved to a new area after marrying my husband, so I had not made any new friends. I was on my own as a woman…trying to figure things out...trying to be my best...trying to survive another day.

“How in the world was I going to meet other moms? When would I have time? Would they even like me? What if they think I’m a bad mom? What if I do or say the wrong thing?”

These were thoughts which occupied my mind constantly.

It has taken me four years to realize that I am my own worst enemy, and if I want something to change, I must take matters into my own hands. Instead of asking those same questions over and over, I have decided to release all of my inhibitions and finally take the leap. I have decided to create my own village.

And that’s why you’re here! Thank you for taking the leap with me!

The primary goal of Mail for Moms is to act as a life line for mothers who feel isolated in a world constantly buzzing with news and social media. One would think that with all of the internet platforms today, we would all be connected! Instead, we have single handedly created the loneliest generation.

But, it’s time we start making changes!

We may not be able to visit each other in person, but we can form our own village no matter the distance! This is the power of letters! We as mothers need something tangible and heartfelt...something which can truly bind us together.

This is why each month you will be receiving a letter from me, a fellow mom. Topics will range from my own personal experiences/lessons in life, struggles I face, joys I’ve been blessed with, and anything else I may feel led to share. My writings will also be faith based and rooted in Jesus. That doesn’t mean my writings will be a bunch of Bible verses and me talking about how praying will solve all of your issues. No, I prefer to “keep it real” and honest. We as mothers are not robots, and we need more than just a pamphlet of scriptures and prayers to repeat. Instead, I believe in applying the Bible to our every day lives in its truth and its entirety. I believe in implementing it in such a way which will truly help us all thrive as women and as mothers.

Overall, Jesus will be at the root of my writings, and the leaves which sprout from these branches will be truthful, raw, and filled with genuine love.

I look forward to writing you all and forming cherished connections! Let’s build something beautiful together.

Sincerely,

Ashley

FAQ

Do you ship internationally?

Yes, we offer international orders. There will be an additional $2 monthly shipping charge on subscriptions outside of the USA to cover international stamps and customs forms.

International mail may incur minor customs fees based on your country's rules—usually none for low-value gifts.

Transit time of international orders will be slightly longer (1-4 weeks depending on the destination).

Can I write you back?

Yes, please write us back! We would love to hear from you. That is the ultimate goal of Mail for Moms: authentic connections. You can drop us a letter at our PO Box (our address is the return label on your mail), or send us an email at contact@mailformoms.com

How does this work?

If you would like to participate in Mail for Moms, all you have to do is subscribe by pressing the “Subscribe” button anywhere on this website. You will then be asked to enter basic contact information along with your physical mailing address. After signing up, you will receive a heartfelt letter from me in your mailbox every month. In your envelope, you will also receive a recipe card. I try to alternate each month with breakfast, lunch, and dinner ideas...and maybe even some desserts! The recipes will be family friendly, easy to make, and easy to clean up afterward! In addition, you will also be given a pre-stamped post card which you can you send to another mom friend you know who may want to join Mail for Moms and receive encouragement. But, here is the great part... If you don’t know anyone personally to send the card to, we provide you with the name and address of another fellow mom in the Mail for Moms network! By doing this, we hope to help moms make new friends, find people of a similar mindset, and to ultimately help our community flourish. What a joy it is to have the ability to share kindness!

When will I receive my letter?

We drop the letters off at the post office on the 13th of every month. Please allow up to 10 business days for your letter to arrive. If you have not seen your letter by then, please contact us at contact@mailformoms.com so we can resolve any issues or re-send a letter to you!

For international customers, please allow up to three weeks for your letter to arrive.

If I gift a Subscription to someone, will they know it was from me?

At this time, we do not have a method of telling the recipient their subscription came from you in our normal ordering process. However, if we receive enough interest in doing so, we will work to add this functionality.

What if I want to cancel my subscription?

We are saddened to hear that you want to leave. However, we understand! All you have to do is open the MENU bar in the upper right hand corner of this site, and you will see a link titled "My Account". Click on this link, and you will be taken to a page where you can manage your account. You will need the email address which you used to subscribe with and access to the same email to receive a verification code. Once inside your account, you can cancel or pause your subscription.

What if I have a change of address?

All you have to do is open the MENU bar in the upper right hand corner of this site, and you will see a link titled "My Account". Click on this link, and you will be taken to a page where you can manage your account. You will need the email address which you used to subscribe with and access to the same email to receive a verification code. Once inside your account, you can change your mailing address.

What if I want to pause my subscription?

I have an issue not listed here, how do I contact you to resolve it?

You can reach us by email at contact@mailformoms.com

We will respond within 24 hours.

When will I be billed for my subscription?

We “freeze” our subscription list on the 1st day of each month. In other words, whoever is subscribed on the 1st of the month will receive mail from us that same month. Thus, your card will be billed on the 1st of each month (give or take a day based on weekends and/or holidays).

Can I track my letter?

Sadly no, we do not currently have a way of tracking the letters.

How large are the postcards I’ll receive?

The postcards are 4" x 6". The recipe cards are also the same size.

What if I don't receive a letter even though I am subscribed for the month?

Please allow up to 10 business days for delivery as USPS sometimes moves slower- but that's part of the fun with mail! If you do not receive your letter within 10 business days from the 13^th of that month when they are sent out, please email us at contact@mailformoms.com so we can resolve any issues or re-send a letter to you!
Please allow 1-4 weeks for international orders.

What if I sign up at the end of the month, will I receive that month's shipment?

No, your subscription will start the next month. We “freeze” our subscription list on the 1st day of each month. In other words, whoever is subscribed on the 1st of the month will receive mail from us that same month.

Will I know what the designs on the postcard will look like before they ship?

Nope! We keep that a secret!

Is this subscription good for kids?

This is not intended for children. While the subject matter I cover in my letters is good and wholesome, I still may speak about adult issues- topics which young children shouldn't have to worry about at their age.

Is there a pre-written message on the back of the post card?

No, you get to write your own personal message to another mom!

Can I cancel my subscription at anytime?

Yes, there are no obligations! All you have to do is open the MENU bar in the upper right hand corner of this site, and you will see a link titled "My Account". Click on this link, and you will be taken to a page where you can manage your account. You will need the email address which you used to subscribe with and access to the same email to receive a verification code. Once inside your account, you can cancel your subscription.

I canceled my subscription after the first of the month. Will I still be charged?

Yes, you will still be charged for that one month. We “freeze” our subscription list on the 1st day of each month. In other words, whoever is subscribed on the 1st of the month will receive mail from us that same month. Thus, your card will be billed on the 1st of each month (give or take a day based on weekends and/or holidays). Refunds will not be issued for cancellations after the 1^st of the month.

Is it safe to give my mailing address to a complete stranger?

We understand that in today’s digital world, the idea of your mailing address being given to someone you don’t know may feel a little odd at first. However, consider the following:

Your mailing address is already public knowledge. Just like the white pages used to exist in physical phone books, your address and mailing information is all over the internet. For example, if someone wanted to find your name and mailing address, they could simply visit your local county property assessor’s website and look at GIS maps. A Google search. Buy a marketing list from a list broker. White pages website. Databases at the local library. Your name and mailing address are already public knowledge.
We are only giving your name and mailing address to one other mom once a month. Your information is given to someone like you who is searching for the same type of connection and encouragement you are. Our goal is to encourage other moms. Being a member of Mail for Moms is a privilege. We have a ZERO Tolerance stance when it comes to abusing the privilege of being a member of our community.

Think about this. If you have an iPhone or Android smartphone, you are being listened to all the time. Your device has a “marketing S/N” associated with it which you can not access, but large corporations can purchase the information. Not only that, but they can also dial in on your Internet Service Provider address and cross reference it with your physical mailing address to send you targeted marketing mail based on conversations you have had in the privacy of your own home.

Are the items sent in the mail limited edition?

Yes, they are ALL limited editions!!

We would love to see your collection of recipe cards and letters on social media!